Whatsercurl, you are seriously one gorgeous lady and a great source of inspiration for me. I have a very similar curl pattern and facial shape to yours, and will be 39 in a few months. I think you're living proof that you don't have to be 20 to turn heads!
You have really nice curls! I don't know how you make spritzing work, it doesn't for me, my hair goes dull and frizzy when spritzed and nothing that I put on works unless I wet some strands, apply leave-in, smooth, scrunch and add some gel. Even then, it doesn't look as good.