You did the bc!?! I didn't know that. The very first time I wore mine out, I went to a large grocery store in the evening. I was not really afraid, but I was so paranoid that other people would look at me differently. I quickly realized that nobody did! They didn't know who I was! The best way I could describe the feeling: It was like putting your head out of the sunroof with your hands out and feeling the warm breeze come over you and seeing the bluest beach and palm tree everywhere. It was like a wave of emotions went over me, I had butterflies and it was one of the most exhilarating experiences of my life. I recently began wearing my hair out naked (no headband). I was so afraid that it wouldn't look right on me and others would think differently of me, but again, it was an amazing experience. You should rock your natural hair! Being natural is a spiritual journey for most, it's not about the style. Be free!
Wow you really experienced a transformation. I wore my hair out one day and felt like a boy, that was on a Sunday, Monday I got braids and have worn them for three months. The TWA look just doesn't work for everyone especially if your used to long hair. In private I do love playing in my TWA when I take my braids out. I just want to do braids for a total of 6 mths then I'll rock a natural, I think:) I just regret my bc and wish I transitioned longer. Oh well at least this way I can't change my mind, after all this there is no way I'm ever relaxing again. I agree it is spiritual but for me it's also a matter of looking feminine and feeling pretty, TWA doesn't do it for me. Other people look good with it and I know the confidence of wearing it has alot to do with it, so rock on:)
I personally have never felt more feminine in my life. I take care to embrace my natural beauty. I enjoy my clothes and accessories more and it's partly because I'm not consumed with the upkeep of my relaxed hair. My mom said that as long as I wear a headband and earrings I'll look like feminine and that really hurt my feelings. There is a fine line between what makes you feel good and being held captive by societal norms.
Hey girl! You are right, your edges look a lot better. It's exciting because we are at the same stage. I have about two inches of new growth as well. I like your braid set, I'll have to try one. I tried to do the two strand twist but I couldn't. I don't see how people do it with wet hair. I'll post some updates soon also. Nevertheless, your looking good:)
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